Now being a Mam or being pregnant for that matter was never something that I gave much thought to – it was always something that I assumed would happen in the future but I had no set date and time for this part of my life to begin. It wasn’t my priority and I assumed it would happen eventually but I never truly visualised myself as a Mother. Well, that was the case until we found out I was pregnant the day before my 30th birthday. Seeing those two lines was terrifying, crazy and although we weren’t using contraception, the reality came as quite a shock for me. But life…